How Social Media Helps Birds of a Feather Flock Together

Savvy leaders are students of both yesterday and today in order to inform a prosperous tomorrow.

This month I found out that turning 40 is a time for reflecting back (as well as being the brunt of a lot jokes about farsightedness, forgetfulness, and gray hair). While it’s a blast remembering the amusement park-type fun of bumping around the “way back” of a station wagon unfettered by seat belts and other safety accoutrement, too much time lamenting about the “way things were” becomes fruitless and counterproductive. For leaders, nostalgia can be both poignant and potentially poisonous.

Dwelling in the past obscures our view of the future. Hindsight with no consideration of foresight ensures that not only will things never again be as they were, they’ll certainly never get better than they are.

Obviously, many aspects of the “good old days” should never have gone by the wayside. New grads should expect to pay their dues and should rightfully be put through the paces. It’s very difficult to fast-track the rich learning that comes from time in the trenches earning your stripes. I’m not sure why the hand-written thank-you note got lost in the shuffle. I will tell you that the folks who invest the few extra minutes and ounces of effort required to use snail mail build more trust and leave a more lasting impression than the person who whips off a perfunctory email.

Just as there are old-school business practices that deserve to be maintained because they work, there are many new school methods that should not be dismissed just because “that’s not how we do things around here.”

Leaders need to objectively evaluate options both old and new to determine which business methods are most appropriate for effectively and efficiently getting results that advance the organization’s mission.

Social Media is one of those “new school” ideas that should not be too quickly dismissed as a fad nor embraced with wild abandon because you don’t want to miss out on all the fun. Leaders have a responsibility to understand what this newer frontier is about and how it can be leveraged to  better serve customers, contribute to the community, benefit the world at large, and advance the organization’s interest. Before diving headlong into Social Media, prudent leaders should wade through real-world cases to carefully assess a fit for their organization. Stories pour forth on the Internet rich with ideas on why and how to adopt Social Media.

Case in Point

Armed with an exhaustive amount of research in social influence reinforced with first hand evidence of how certain influence techniques can be successfully wielded by the well-intentioned, I nervouslyentered the Social Media arena. Though capable of reaching the balcony in an auditorium unaided by a microphone, I wasn’t sure how my one voice could be deciphered over the cacophony on social networking sites. Much to my delight I discovered a choir of diverse voices harmoniously exalting the importance of character-based leadership. What I found was The Lead Change Group.

With Mike Henry Sr. at the helm, The Lead Change Group has pierced the veil of Social Media mystery and emerged as a tour de force in the realm of emergent leadership.

Here is the road map this group followed to be distinguished from the din.

  • The social networking began with a few of people following each other on Twitter and sharing thoughts using #leadchange to categorize their input.
  • Mike provided a communal space for the group on LinkedIn
  • By leveraging the functionality of the site,  introductions are continously being made between existing and new members. Through this utility, people can choose to  follow either specific participants or everyone in the Lead Change Group.
  • The group has a website and blog  that serves as a focal point for those interested in leading with character and creating positive results.
  • Expanding exponentially, a natural progression for this intricate tapestry of high integrity leaders is to move the conversation from the keyboard to the conference room. Leader Palooza, a conference on 2/19-2/20, will allow these birds of a feather to flock together in sunny Ft. Lauderdale. It’s an opportunity to deepen the relationships and expand the boundaries of the tenets that began 140 characters at a time.

What started in the new school will be strengthened by some good old fashioned brainstorming, action planning, and face-to-face networking.

The Lead Change Group illustrates a Social Media-born fusion of  cutting edge communication tools with by-gone era best practices. The outcome is a team of individuals proactively seeking and implementing innovations in leadership excellence.

Mixing Backward Glances with Foreward Thinking

The Lead Change Group is just one example of how Social Media can be leveraged to achieve a targeted objective. In this case, the goal was to provide a forum for like minded thinkers.  Starting on the Web and transitioning to a more traditional medium (the conference) expedited the organization’s growth and ensured a valuable diversity of participants.

How can your organization springboard off of tried & true methods and gain momentum from ground-breaking concepts to ultimately achieve maximum velocity?



Filed under Business, How To, Influence, Leadership, Networking, Social media, Social Networking, Uncategorized

14 responses to “How Social Media Helps Birds of a Feather Flock Together

  1. Hello, nice day! Your article is very impressive. I never believed that it was possible to accomplish something like that until after I looked over your page. You definitely offered a great perception on how this whole scheme works. I will always visit for more information. Keep writing!

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  4. I couldnt understand some parts of this article, but I guess I just need to check some more resources regarding this, because it sure sounds interesting!

    • nicoledefalco

      Hi! If you have specific questions or areas of the post that are unclear, please share those. Your thoughts and questions could spark us all to look at the topic from a different point of view!

      Take care, Nicole

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  8. It is amazing how social media allows us to connect with like minded people around the world. I like the idea of The Lead Change group

  9. Nicole –

    Great read. The balance between process and progress has plagued businesses, big and small, for ages. How do you preserve the core methods and values that made you successful while simultaneously evolving to keep up with new consumer expectations? Your article addresses that nicely and although you don’t propose to have the solution to the riddle, your approach is sensible. Resisting can be just as disastrous as a blind leap. Move forward with caution and strategy.

    I appreciate that you shared The Lead Change Group’s recipe for success. While some industries can grow by simply maintaining virtual social relationships, many others need to find the right web-to-storefront progression. Thank you for sharing an approach that has been successful in migrating interaction from cyberspace to face-to-face.

    • nicoledefalco

      Hi Liz, so glad you shared your input! You’ve summed up the issue to eloquently, ” How do you preserve the core methods and values that made you successful while simultaneously evolving to keep up with new consumer expectations?”

      The solution to this riddle lies in the specific objective or objectives the organization is trying to achieve. I believe the best method for leaders is to clearly define the desired results. Then, select the tactics both static and evolving that, when applied in well-planned amounts, directly impact the desired outcome. It sounds straight forward enough. Yet, the complexities in every organization and the unique circumstances of the environment in which they exist are where the task becomes daunting. That’s where nostalgia kicks in. The unknown makes us long for the time when we had it all figured out.

      Thank you for kicking off the conversation!

      Nicole De Falco Copywriting, Business Writing, Instructional Design Write Influence: Saying What You Mean ph: 847.275.5494 / fax: 847.628.0722 web: blog: Twitter: LinkedIn: Facebook: